星期三, 五月 16, 2007

擦身而过却留有痕迹

我们一生认识的人肯定很多,深交的可能也只有那两三个,而且,每一个时期又会有不同的深交。真正能长远深交的有一两个,已经是很幸福的事了。时间真的可以冲淡一切的。小学时所谓的好朋友,也不过是“我跟你好”的那一群人, 敌人就是那一群“我不跟你好”的。但是,由于年轻不懂事单纯的关系,没有永远的敌人也没有所谓永远的朋友。到了中学,小学朋友也因为毕业而分道扬镳了。又有新的一批人在我们的生命中出现。这里,好朋友又陆续出现。毕业后,这一群好朋友又会慢慢消失。大学了,又重复中学的过程。不同的是,中学的深交却会在我们的生命里不时地出现,虽然大家的生活地理位置不同了。不知道为何,即使是擦身而过,但是都会在我的生活里留下一点痕迹。虽然会很模糊,但是,有时候会忽然想,“哼,不知道那某某活得如何了?” 离别,永远都是很伤人的。我只希望拿一些与我擦身而过的朋友活得好,快乐健康。

We must have known a lot of people in our lives. Some of them might be our very good and deep friends. Besides, these good friends might change in period. For instance, in primary school you would have some good friends that you can play with. In high school, these good friends might change to some other good friends that you can share your other experience with. For instance, your troubles, sadness, happiness. I guess that is because the older we get, the more we think, the more burden we have. Then, after high school graduation, these good friends would gradually disappear from your daily life. Yeah, sometimes one or two emails, maybe a phone call, or maybe a visit, but that's it. Then, in university, friends are totally different, and somehow good friends rarely appear. I guess, when we reach certain age, we are more careful from sharing our emotions or feelings. However, some of those good friends you would have "inherited" from high school. Even though all these friends might have only been a momentarily encounter in your life, somehow, they do leave something behind, which could somehow provoke something emotion in you. For instance, you would suddenly think, "hmm, how is that guy from high school doing now?" Depart, is always upsetting. I just hope these friends who have a flash encounter with me having a good life somewhere in the other part of the world.

1 条评论:

匿名 说...

偶然的情况下, 看到了你的'博客'...顿时令我想起了许多中学时美丽的回忆..毕业
已经十年了! 不知道你的生活如何.也不知道你去了上海工作..时间与距离令我们渐
渐失去联络.真令人惭愧. .希望你在遥远的上海能幸福,快乐与健康..

与你擦身而过的朋友...'阿才'..
(my mandarin sucks now..bear with me..ha)