杂谈

有几天都没有写些什么有意义的东西了。也不是没有什么特别的事情发生，只是需要很小心的处理。工作不会时常都愉快的。这是理所当然的事实。生活也会有烦恼的，无论是金钱上，还是其它方面。有人的地方就有争执，有人的地方就会有难看的事情发生。避不了的，唯有步步为营。看不顺眼的东西也肯定有的，让自己烦躁的事情无时无刻都可能发生。逃不了的，唯有只眼闭只眼开。如果要争得话，就必须作最坏的打算，如果要退的话，就要懂得如何调整心情。不公平的事情太多了。当你觉得自己被不公平对待的时候，也会有人在某处也深受同感。上海是一个不健康的社会，也难怪，所有的东西还在成长着学习着，人如此，物也如此。某一处朱门酒如臭（事实如此），另一处就路有冻死骨（其实也没有这么夸张）。房东要求我早一个月缴租，原因是他的股票被压死着了。某一人在办公室的行为，令我做了一个让知情者惊动的行为。某一人的懒散，让我觉得不满。但是，不满归不满，能做的却有限。花了钱在运动，让一些有钱人为之动容。同事们的包容，让我为之感动。街上还是嘈漕闹闹，女朋友发狂打男友还是见了不少。E3的消息，让我每天为之兴奋。The Closer的开始，让我每一个星期都有一个小期待。Transformers 的播映，让我开心了两天。大马家弟的事情，让我有一些担心。荷兰朋友的烦恼，让我也烦恼。生活有高有低，就看我们如何应对。

It has been a few days that I didn't really write anything meaningful (maybe because life has become a routine, and nothing is distinctively meaningful). Some incidents happened requiring some careful handling. Work is never always happy, life is never always troubling. Wherever there is human beings, conflicts are bound to happen. All we can do is take each step solicitously. Whenever something unsatisfying happen, all we can do is trying to is to see it with eyes half closed. If we want to fight, we have to make the worst anticipation. If we want to back down, we need to know how to take care of our emotions. Unfairness is everywhere. When we feel that we have been treated unfairly, at another corner another person is feeling the same. Shanghai is a very unhealthy city and society. This is unavoidable because this country is still in developing stage. At one side, rich people throwing money like nothing, at the other side, poor people fighting their lives to make both ends meet. My landlord asked me to pay the rent one month earlier, apparently he is having some troubles with the stock and needs some cash. A person in the office has done something that provoked me to do something that shocked some people. Another person's laziness pissed me off, but I couldn't do nothing even though I am not really happy about that. Spent some money on sports (gym) made some rich people wonder. Colleagues' understanding make me feel more comfortable. The street is still noisy as usual, and I have witnessed a lot of (physical) fights between a woman and a man. E3's news made me happy first thing in the morning. The Closer gives me something to look forwards to every week. Transformers made me happy for almost 2 days. My brother's problem worries me. My Netherlands good friend's trouble troubles me. Life has ups and downs, I guess it all depends on how we are handling it.