两天的放晴,然后阴天,忽然间下雨了。接下来,又放晴了。这样一个循环常规,累不累?每一天的上下班,然后又周末了,接下来又是星期一了。这样的一个循环常规,人开始适应,开始麻木。最近经常会challenge一些同事,“你有没有想想自己的未来,就这样窝在一个温床里一生一世吗?”其中一个同事说,“其实也不错,有一张如此的温床!”看来,“change”不是一个简单的任务。我最近发现原来自己是一个居安思危的人,经常会想,如果这一份工作没有了怎么办,如果来了一个很糟的老板怎么办,等等的。说真的,我很羡慕我那一个同事--常规没有什么不好的。
Two days of sun, then cloud, then suddenly it rained last night. Then, we will expect some more sun. It is a routine, a circle. I wonder if it is tiring even for the sky. Everyday, work, back from work, then weekend, then Monday again. Most of us already get used to this type of routine. In fact, we even feel numb in this type of circle. Lately, I started challenge some of my colleagues by asking, "What do you want to do in the future? Do you really want to stay in this comfort zone for the rest of your life?" and one of them replied, "Why not? It is a comfort zone." It seems "change" is an utmost challenge for everyone. I recently realize that I like to prepare for the worst even when I am in the best time -- if I somehow lost this job, what happen? If somehow we get a worse boss, what happen?, etc. Honestly, I really envy my colleague -- there is nothing wrong with routine!
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你那同事可以活得很快乐
哈哈哈哈好像最近因为我一直challenge他的关系,开始活得不打开心了:P
sometimes, living a normal life/routine/in comfort zone is equal to living a life w/o objectives/goals. you are already comfort as you are, you won't strive hard for better stuffs in life or even want more extraordinary stuff in your life. it's sometimes good to be greedy or want something for more but in a good way la :D
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